In
The Celestine Prophecy, James
Redfield writes about the “control
dramas” that people use to draw
energy from one another. Think
about it. Every time you interact
with another person, there is
a transaction of energy. Depending
on the kind of interaction,
you either feel energised or
drained after it. The reason
why negative people tend to
drain your energy is because
they are operating from their
ego. The ego is all about, “I,
me and myself.” It always wants
more. More possessions, more
wealth, more pride, more control,
more energy… When you operate
from the ego, you tend to draw
energy towards yourself, and
away from the other person.
Every time you try to “be right”,
every time you try to prove
yourself superior to another
person or dominate them, you
are fighting a battle for energy.
This battle is the death-knell
of many a relationship. But
when you experience a sense
of oneness with the universe,
lose your sense of self and
ego and learn to operate from
love, there’s no more need for
control dramas. The Fourth and
Fifth Insight in The Celestine
Prophecy state that: “Humans
have always felt insecure and
disconnected from this sacred
source, and have tried to take
energy by dominating each other.
This struggle is responsible
for all human conflict. The
only solution is to cultivate
a personal reconnection with
the divine, a mystical transformation
that fills us with unlimited
energy and love, extends our
perception of beauty, and lifts
us into a Higher-Self Awareness.”
These insights are not new.
For thousands of years, spiritual
and energy healers from the
disciplines of Reiki, Tai Chi,
Qigong and Yoga, have understood
and used them to draw energy
directly from the divine source.
Meditation is the way recommended
by spiritual and energy healers,
but a positive attitude and
healthy diet are also important.
When you realise that the energy
in the universe is infinite
and boundless, and learn how
to tap into that divine energy
and abundance, there’s no need
for you to draw your energy
from another person. This realisation
will completely transform your
relationships. When you learn
how to build your resources
of energy directly from the
universe, you can even give
some to another person who needs
it. You know there’s always
more where that came from.
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